Why “Necrotized Tissue” Makes Me Happy

Necrotized tissue – literally means dead tissue. Dead.

And this makes me thrilled.

My Dad has been battling skin cancer for a couple of years. Friday was when he found out his status. Good, bad, or stable. I’ve been on pins and needles waiting.

Solid news: Stable with “necrotized tissue” in the affected areas.

(Learning Corner: “Necro” is Latin for “dead,” best known as “Necrophilia” (the desire to have sex with dead people.) Bet you remember this for a while, at least until the next cocktail party…)

So this means Dad’s cancerous tissue maybe dying.

Hooray!

Dead tissue, I never thought I’d be so happy to hear such a thing, but I’ll take, and celebrate, the good news, where I find it.

You Plan, God Laughs, What Next?

One thing I’ve learned from the past few years is BE FLEXIBLE.

You have to, or you just might break.

This applies for business, especially in these times, being agile is crucial. It works for parenting, in fact it’s practically is the motto. You have to be able to adapt and ride the wave of change. Oh, and I’ll throw in that you need “hope for the best,” and a “remain calm” and finish it with “think positive.”

All are necessary when dealing with unexpected turmoil.

My friend Flames just called me. Literally, I just got off the phone with her 2 mins ago. She’s about to board a plane to San Diego for her brother’s wedding, 3 kids in tow. She was feeling so pleased with herself she just about executed the perfect escape: the house is clean, the kids packed and ready, the hubby coming a couple of days later. She is all set. She’s got it together, she’s on FIRE.

Then she realized she left her bridesmaid dress and her daughter’s flower girl dress back at home. So much for the fire. Hubby will bring both items just in time, but still, she’s angry because she had the gall to think she was super on top of things. Confirmation to the contrary is a bitter pill.

When things change, usually for the worse, is when we most need to be on our A game.

Change is inevitable folks. Believe me, I’m living proof.

Remain calm. Think positive. Adapt.

90 Day Fitness Challenge Update #4: Changes Abound.

Many thanks to stylecaster.com for the cool picture.

We all remember the Fat Ass Jeans post. Right?

I’m officially out of them!

End of week four. Since starting, I’ve had 6 Pilates sessions, 5 Personal Training, 14 cardio sessions, in total.

With nary a thing (clean) to wear, I reached through the strata of my closet and unearthed a much smaller size pair pants. It fit. A bit snug, but it fit!

(and the world rejoiced… or so it did in my mind.)

Back to eating healthier (I did have a glass of wine or two.) I feel much better than the past week. I don’t care what people say, food impacts not only your size, but your mood and health. Treat it as you would a prescription-and ask yourself ” is the best possible choice?” before you eat.

So let’s see what a healthier diet and those rad folks are  Modern Pilates and Bodyscapes Fitness in Hingham, MA did for TheBetsy’s body.

Week four time to see how I fared by  measuring inches lost (or gained…)

So as of 6/02/10 :

• Bust: 37.00 inches (No change from last week, -1.0″ total)
• Waist: 29.5 inches (- 1.5″ from last week,  -3.50″ total)
• Hips: 41.5 inches (-0.5″ from last week, -1.40″ total)
• Upper arm: 10.75 inches (-0.75″, -1.25″ total)
• Upper thigh: 23.00 inches (No change  from last week, -3.00″ total)

Total inches lost this week: 2.75″, total 10.75″ since starting.

Hooray! Muchas Gracias to all that are helping me!

If you need to get up to-date on the 90 day health challenge I’m doing, you can read all about it HERE.

Check out my partners in the Go Betsy Go! 90 Day Challenge:

A Few Things I’m Excited About…

Photo courtesy of jithinv mohan

A few things on my mind today…

1. The new iPhone 4th Generation is rumored to be released this week, or at least announced today when Steve Jobs does the keynote at the WWDC. Oh wowsie-wow-wow. I’m not your average tech geek. I’m the married to a super lovely Super-Geek, but I’m more the practical “what have you done for me lately?” type of techie. I love the sparkle of shiny new, but if you make my life harder I’ll drop-kick you like a few of my college boyfriends. Hard.

Having said that, I’m also the lady who got the iPhone 3G as an anniversary present and told my husband that, outside of his love, the kids and my wedding rings, it was the nicest present he’s ever given me. Intuitive, sleek, it makes my super ADD life work quicker, faster, and more seamlessly, all on the fly. I can’t wait to check out the 4th Gen (not to be confused with 4G) latest edition. Supposedly front and back camera (for video conferencing,) bigger screen, longer battery life — these are the rumors floating around. There was even a scandal surrounding the found 4th Generation iPhone prototype. Very heady stuff.

2. Rainy-day Cardio. Ever since starting the Go Betsy Go! 90 Day Fitness Challenge, I’ve had to log in 5 sessions of cardio in a week. I can usually do 3 of them during the 2 Pilates sessions and 1 personal training sessions I have during the week, but that leaves 2 I have to squeeze in sometime during the week. Not that hard when it’s sunny, but lately Boston has been subjected to thunder storms and days of rain. Days. I asked my personal trainer, the fabulous Laura Dosdall, at Bodyscapes Fitness for some rainy day cardio ideas. No treadmill needed.

Laura come up with the following ideas– and being with any exercise, you should absolutely consult a doctor first before starting ANY exercise program– so don’t just up and try these without any professional input.

Running stairs- 30 mins. Run up, walk down (for safety.) Between rounds, alternate the following:

• Body weight squats and lunges.
• Hopping from the ground to the first stair for 30 second intervals (holding the railing for support if necessary)
• Use any equipment and throw in some exercises between rounds up and down the stairs. For example, run up and down 5 times, then do 20 stability ball crunches, then 5 times up & down, then 20 resistance band bicep curls, etc.

I’ve already done it, and it was pretty intense. Thanks again Laura!

3. My kids are getting out of school soon- and I have yet to plan the summer out.  I guess this is where “just in time Mommy” rules. I heard a great idea from my friend Suzy: the 1st day of summer she sits down with the kids and drafts the “Summer Bucket List.” They write everything they’d like to do this summer and plan each week to knock off one or two items off the list. Neat idea!

90 Day Fitness Challenge Update #3: Food is Key.

Food is key.

I’ve heard some actresses say 70% of getting in shape is what you eat.

End of week three. Since starting, I’ve had 4 Pilates sessions, 4 Personal Training, 8 cardio sessions, in total.

This week’s challenge was my inablitity to getting back to eating as well as I had prior. Yoda-speak, “Frustrated I am.”

Seems I started off well, but as the week progressed things got harder and harder. I’d grill up some chicken breasts and burned them to a crisp while talking with the septic guy working on my property. Or to haul my cookies to Trader Joe’s to get brown rice wraps and watch the last package being taken before my eyes, and come to find the two key ingredients of my “Green Smoothie,” frozen pinapple and mango are out of stock. Seriously?

I swear someone was out to get me.

But look that’s no excuse. I should have back-ups, especially since I’ve been a 8 or a 9 (out of 10) on the stress meter. So I don’t have to think too much when I’m late eating and rushed for time.

I’ve found that eating well means planning well, means when your running in late for lunch you have everything you need to make a great salad or wrap. Otherwise I’ll have what the kids are having and then it’s peanut butter’n'fluff for everyone!

(Ok… for full disclosure my kids have never eaten fluff, but you get the gist of what I’m saying.)

So this week I’m completely banking on what the folks at Modern Pilates and the personal trainers from Bodyscapes Fitness in Hingham, MA for any change. Even though I didn’t eat a bucket of KFC (or even one piece.) I feel I didn’t help as much as I could by keeping on track with super-healthy eating. And that suck-eth.

So it’s the end of week three,  measurement time… let’s see the damage shall we?

So as of 6/04/10 :

• Bust: 37.00 inches (-.25″ from last week, -1.0″ total) Take from the butt, not the boobs! Jeez!
• Waist: 31.00 inches (- 0.5″ from last week,  -2.00″ total)
• Hips: 42 inches (No change from last week, -1.00″ total) Ok double JEEZ!
• Upper arm: 11.5 inches (No change from last week, -0.50″ total)
• Upper thigh: 23.00 inches (0.25″ from last week, -3.00″ total)

Total inches lost this week: 1.5″, total 8.0″ since starting.

I’ll take it.

This goes to show you what having some great coaches can do! My plan now is, after today’s workout with Super-trainer Laura, I’m hitting Wholefoods. They are the other place, beside Trader Joe’s, for a lot of what I need. And though a bit more expensive on certain items, I know I will get everything I need in one shot. I’m paying for convenience and willing to do it, I’m that desperate.  Next will be to grill up some chicken breasts, make a few home-made salad dressings (see recipes for yummy dressings and Flames’ Super Green Smoothie HERE.)

Take-aways: Planning is everything. Especially if you’re busy. Which I seem to be.

Viva Good Health!

If you need to get up to-date on the 90 day health challenge I’m doing, you can read all about it HERE.

Check out my partners in the Go Betsy Go! 90 Day Challenge:

UPDATE: The 1,687 Calorie Turkey Burger From Hell is Actually 456 Calories. (Their bad)

Not the offending Turkey Burger, but it could have been. (and I didn't even eat the freakin' fries!) Photo courtesy of abcnews.com

UPDATE: I posted, tweeted my horror at eating a 1,687 calorie Turkey Burger from NotYourAverageJoe’s, I also emailed the company themselves, first to their Executive Chef to register my complaint, and second time (I cc’d the CEO) to let them know I’d done a blog post and cc’d WBZ news. Later today I received an email from Kristin Struck, the Food and Beverage Director for N.A.J. and here is what she said:

Hi Betsy,

Thanks for writing.  I just reviewed the ingredients of the turkey burger and “cured pork” was used instead of ground turkey in the analysis.  That is the reason for the blatant error.  I am surprised we did not catch this before and I really apologize.   I’ve pasted the nutritional facts below.  Please feel free to contact me with any questions.  I will be updating our website this week.

Thanks again,

Kristin

Well there you have it. My hard-hitting, blow-off the lid reporting, was really… just a mistake. A subsequent email from Kristin confirmed that they are indeed, double checking the rest of the dishes and will have confirmed nutritional data up in a couple of weeks.

Boston can now sleep safely. And I can sleep safely knowing I actually chose wisely- in total I ate 456 calories, still nothing to sneeze at (fries are still not an option.)

Kudos for NotYourAverageJoe’s for responding and owning up to the mistake- as well as retesting their menu!

My only other question is- Who the HELL makes a burger out of “cured pork?” I mean in order to test it, I don’t think it would be off base to assume it was one of the options being considered.

Pork burger anyone?

________________________

I consumed more than my ENTIRE daily caloric intake in one meal.

In one turkey burger no less.

Whoa.

Now eating well, especially if you eating strict, is tough- Memorial Day BBQ, dining out, these take preparation. In a pinch I’ve relied on my gut and common sense.

Baby Lug (he of the 1/8th” inverse Mohawk saga of Monday) went to visit the hubby at work for lunch. Off we went to the usual great eats of NotYourAverageJoe’s. A quirky, fun chain dotting the surrounding areas of Boston (read: ‘burbs.)

We like it. Everyone is always happy.

Mama’s not happy.

Scanning their meals I opted out of the creamed, the fried, the smothered and the breaded. I settled on what I thought was a sensible-sounding “Turkey Burger.” Greek-inspired, made with turkey, spinach and feta it came with Ziziki sauce (yogurt, garlic blend) and a bun. I ate it, had a side salad of greens with no dressing and the usual seltzer water with limes.

Come to find I ingested no less than 1,687 calories. HOLY CRAP!

As you can see, the Turkey Burger is the worst "sandwich" available. (Data Courtesy of NotYourAverageJoe's Nutritional Information)

Think of it this way- it’s the fat equivalent of 9 Hersey bars or the caloric intake of eating 8. I would have been better off eating 7 regular size Hersey bars than eating 1 regular size Turkey burger.

Holy Crap is right Batman!

Usually I try to stay within 1200-1500 calories a day. I’ve been working out so I’ve leaned toward latter, but in ONE burger 1687 calories, 117g of it Fat? Hello my entire day of food plus a side order of cardiac-arrest!

According to an online ABC News article, the fat and calorie content of a turkey burger depends on the ration of ground dark meat to white meat. Higher the dark, the more fat. And it can easily be higher in fat and calories than a beef burger: one 4 ounce, 85% lean, turkey burger can have 17g of fat. This still doesn’t get me to the 117g of the turkey belly-bomb I had yesterday but you can see how it doesn’t help.

Let’s see what I could have ordered instead at NotYourAverageJoes:

• Veggie Burger (694 calories)
• Regular Burger (813 calories)
• Pizzas (any of the personal pizzas are less and range between 950-1372 calories)
• Full Meatloaf Dinner (1184 calories incl. BBQ sauce and buttered beans)
• Mediterranean Chicken 735 calories, incl. cucumber salad and Ziziki sauce)
• Crab Cake BLT (965 calories)
• Sashimi Tuna (at 344 calories, 31 gram of fat incl. sauce, this is what I should have ordered)

And the list goes on and on…

Not that I would have 900+ calories in a sitting, but I learned a lesson. Check before you eat. Plan ahead. What I thought was common sense was not. Just more comical, in retrospect.

A lot of restaurants (especially chains) carry their nutrition info on their website. This is where I went when I had saw the gobsmacked caloric number of N.A.J.’s Turkey Burger posted at another site. Another great site, especially for those on Weight Watchers is Dottie’s Weight Loss Zone, they have the point value of a TON of restaurants. Calculate your WW point total (X) , then keep each meal (X/3 meals) at your allotted number of pts. and you can select on the fly pretty easily.

I just added (can you tell I am really pissed this happened?) the “Restaurant Calorie Counter” by Euliax. Though it doesn’t have NotYorAverageJoe’s on it, I feel better if I find myself in the same situation as it has a lot of places I tend to dine at. Plus I just zipped them off an email requesting they include them and Bertuccis, another local fave.

Update: Euliax got back to me, they’re adding both Bertuccis and NotYourAverageJoe’s to their next release- should be out in a month. Hooray for their quick response! If you have a fave restaurant let me know- send me the link to their nutritional information (a breakdown of each dish into calories/fat/fiber/sodium, etc.) and I’ll send it their way! I also emailed the executive Chef of NotYourAverageJoe’s yesterday and yet to get a response.

Take aways (to be reminded each time my stomach will be growling later on tonight for sure.):

• Plan ahead.
• If you can’t do #1, don’t stray too far off the reservation. If you know plain salad with grilled chicken will do the trick then stick to that, boring as it is.
• Good health is a journey, some pitfalls, some hills but also a lot of nice, open road. Sometimes you just need a map to keep from getting lost…
• Have a bad day? Learn from it and then it’s in the past. Move on. Dwelling is just toxic.

OK. I thought I’d share. With this, and with the Memorial Day weekend, I hope I can make up in the next few days before my measurements are taken for the Go Betsy Go! 90 day Fitness Challenge. I wasn’t expecting another epic 6 inch loss but some inches gone would be nice. I’ll take even 1″.

Cheers.

The Pitfalls of Eating Out… or the 1,687 Calorie Turkey Burger From Hell.

Not the offending Turkey Burger, but it could have been. (and I didn't even eat the freakin' fries!) Photo courtesy of abcnews.com

I consumed more than my ENTIRE daily caloric intake in one meal.

In one turkey burger no less.

Whoa.

Now eating well, especially if you eating strict, is tough- Memorial Day BBQ, dining out, these take preparation. In a pinch I’ve relied on my gut and common sense.

Baby Lug (he of the 1/8th” inverse Mohawk saga of Monday) went to visit the hubby at work for lunch. Off we went to the usual great eats of NotYourAverageJoe’s. A quirky, fun chain dotting the surrounding areas of Boston (read: ‘burbs.)

We like it. Everyone is always happy.

Mama’s not happy.

Scanning their meals I opted out of the creamed, the fried, the smothered and the breaded. I settled on what I thought was a sensible-sounding “Turkey Burger.” Greek-inspired, made with turkey, spinach and feta it came with Ziziki sauce (yogurt, garlic blend) and a bun. I ate it, had a side salad of greens with no dressing and the usual seltzer water with limes.

Come to find I ingested no less than 1,687 calories. HOLY CRAP!

As you can see, the Turkey Burger is the worst "sandwich" available. (Data Courtesy of NotYourAverageJoe's Nutritional Information)

Think of it this way- it’s the fat equivalent of 9 Hersey bars or the caloric intake of eating 8. I would have been better off eating 7 regular size Hersey bars than eating 1 regular size Turkey burger.

Holy Crap is right Batman!

Usually I try to stay within 1200-1500 calories a day. I’ve been working out so I’ve leaned toward latter, but in ONE burger 1687 calories, 117g of it Fat? Hello my entire day of food plus a side order of cardiac-arrest!

According to an online ABC News article, the fat and calorie content of a turkey burger depends on the ration of ground dark meat to white meat. Higher the dark, the more fat. And it can easily be higher in fat and calories than a beef burger:  one 4 ounce, 85% lean, turkey burger can have 17g of fat. This still doesn’t get me to the 117g of the turkey belly-bomb I had yesterday but you can see how it doesn’t help.

Let’s see what I could have ordered instead at NotYourAverageJoes:

• Veggie Burger (694 calories)
• Regular Burger (813 calories)
• Pizzas (any of the personal pizzas are less and range between 950-1372 calories)
• Full Meatloaf Dinner (1184 calories incl. BBQ sauce and buttered beans)
• Mediterranean Chicken 735 calories, incl. cucumber salad and Ziziki sauce)
• Crab Cake BLT (965 calories)
• Sashimi Tuna (at 344 calories, 31 gram of fat incl. sauce, this is what I should have ordered)

And the list goes on and on…

Not that I would have 900+ calories in a sitting, but I learned a lesson. Check before you eat. Plan ahead. What I thought was common sense was not. Just more comical, in retrospect.

A lot of restaurants (especially chains) carry their nutrition info on their website. This is where I went when I had saw the gobsmacked caloric number of N.A.J.’s Turkey Burger posted at another site. Another great site, especially for those on Weight Watchers is Dottie’s Weight Loss Zone, they have the point value of a TON of restaurants. Calculate your WW point total (X) , then keep each meal (X/3 meals) at your allotted number of pts. and you can select on the fly pretty easily.

I just added (can you tell I am really pissed this happened?) the “Restaurant Calorie Counter” by Euliax. Though it doesn’t have NotYorAverageJoe’s on it, I feel better if I find myself in the same situation as it has a lot of places I tend to dine at. Plus I just zipped them off an email requesting they include them and Bertuccis, another local fave.

Update: Euliax got back to me, they’re adding both Bertuccis and NotYourAverageJoe’s to their next release- should be out in a month. Hooray for their quick response! If you have a fave restaurant let me know- send me the link to their nutritional information (a breakdown of each dish into calories/fat/fiber/sodium, etc.) and I’ll send it their way! I also emailed the executive Chef of NotYourAverageJoe’s yesterday and yet to get a response.

Take aways (to be reminded each time my stomach will be growling later on tonight for sure.):

• Plan ahead.
• If you can’t do #1, don’t stray too far off the reservation. If you know plain salad with grilled chicken will do the trick then stick to that, boring as it is.
• Good health is a journey, some pitfalls, some hills but also a lot of nice, open road. Sometimes you just need a map to keep from getting lost…
• Have a bad day? Learn from it and then it’s in the past. Move on. Dwelling is just toxic.

OK. I thought I’d share. With this, and with the Memorial Day weekend, I hope I can make up in the next few days before my measurements are taken for the Go Betsy Go! 90 day Fitness Challenge. I wasn’t expecting another epic 6 inch loss but some inches gone would be nice. I’ll take even 1″.

Cheers.

90 Day Fitness Challenge Update #2: Feel the Pain.

I can barely sit down.

End of week two. Since starting, I’ve had 2 Pilates sessions, 3 Personal Training, 5 cardio sessions, in total.

And one sore butt.

I’m thrilled beyond belief. The pain means I’m getting stronger. One step closer to better health. One step closer to better bikini shape.(What? You think it’s just about better health? Seriously?)

So I worked out with Erin from Modern Pilates on Monday. It was awesome experience, and due to a snafu I couldn’t work out with Robin on Wednesday, but it did gave me the chance to work out with Kyle, one of the personal trainers from Bodyscapes Fitness.

My workouts with Erin and Kyle really show how different trainers can be. Erin to Robin and Kyle to Laura (my usual personal trainer on Friday) all their styles are each different and unique. One thing IS constant, and that is the emphasis on form. All four is stress good form whether it’s on the reformer (a standard pilates equipement) or doing sit-ups on an exercise ball.

As far as eating, I’m the Clean Detox diet chica- but I’ve had to take a step back from being 100%. I’ve had to take some super hard-core antibiotics for my rosacea. As a result it’s pretty much killed off my gut bugs, a corner-stone for good health. I have to stop taking the antibiotics, and take probiotics to grow the good bugs back. But stuff happens. I’m watching the amount I eat, but I’ve included some previously verboten wheat, caffeine, sugar, soy and sweeteners in my meals. Now that I type this I can say, honestly and bluntly, I’ve taken some advantage of the situation. Tonight I had a half an almond butter and strawberry jam sandwich and some ice tea. Not what I want, and not the best for me. Wheat, caffeine and sugar. Oh my!

My plan is to stop the antibiotics tomorrow, so I’ll be back on the Clean again: mostly smoothies for breakfast and dinner, lunch of salad or brown-rice wraps with grilled chicken, and small snacks of almonds. I say mostly as I’m headed into a major US holiday weekend, full of BBQ’s and I can’t control everything that is being served. Just try you best, and when all else fails, portion control it baby.

So it’s the end of week two, now for the measuremnets… let’s see if there’s been any progress, shall we?

So as of  5/28/10  :

• Bust: 37.25 inches (-.75 inch)
• Waist: 31.5 inches (- 1.5 inches)
• Hips: 42inches  (-1.00 inch)
• Upper arm: 11.5 inches (-0.50 inch)
• Upper thigh: 23.25 inches (-2.75 inches)

Total inches lost: 6.5″

Sweet! Perhaps my big butt days are numbered…

If you need to get up to-date on the 90 day health challenge I’m doing, you can read all about it HERE.

Check out my partners in the Go Betsy Go! 90 Day Challenge:

90 Day Update: Week 1

Photo courtesy of healnh.org

As you all know I’m doing a 90-day challenge with Modern Pilates and Bodyscapes Fitness in Hingham, MA.

And Friday’s post is being done on Monday.

The kinks are being worked out.

I just wanted to let you know how the first week went.

As I said its a few kinks had to be worked out- a pilates session rescheduled because yours truly had a scheduling conflict, and I’ve being 5-10 mins late tardy because Baby Lug decides he’s not quite on board with the program. Le sigh.

The pluses are many- I feel taller and my muscles feel warm and worked. My coaches are awesome thus far: Robin (pilates) and Laura (personal training.) I think I have a fairly good chance of kicking some serious butt! (and get one in the process) Hooray!

I also had my measurements were taken. My goal is to not drop lbs. necessarily, but lose inches and fit into my clothes better (drop a few sizes would be good.) So without further adieu, here’s the dirty deets…

As of 5/23/10  :

• Bust: 38 inches
• Waist: 33 inches
• Hips: 43 inches (!)
• Upper arm: 12 inches
• Upper thigh: 26 inches.

You can read more on Modern Pilate’s owner Lisa Johnson’s fab fitness blog, LisaJohnsonFitness. On Monday, she’s going to be laying down the expectations for LeBetsy and I’ll be summing up the experience on Friday.

Go Betsy Go! Flab to Le Fab…

Montage courtesy of Ok! Magazine

You see them on the red carpet.

It could be Gwyneth, Sandra, or Scarlett. Julia, Angela or Jennifer.

Rockin’ the paparazzi with totally rockin’ bodies.

Le sigh.

They have their own personal Glam Squads backing them up- world-famous stylists, hairdressers, nutritionist and personal trainers making sure everything is tight, gorgeous and camera ready.

Often I wonder, in my life-stained gap t-shirt, gazing at UsWeekly, what would happen if I had access to that kind of support. In my past I worked in and on films, and you’d be amazed at what would come in for reading and, given 3 months of intense work-out regime, what would saunters on the set and on the red-carpet. A lot can happen in that 90 day period. A lot.

And now I’m going to find out. First-hand.

I’ve been challenged by a Boston Pilates studio and Gym that moved in recently to my area.

For 3 months, 90 days, I’m going to work my ass off. Literally.

I’ve been tweeting and FB about it- A month or two ago, I was approached by Lisa Johnson, owner of Modern Pilates, a well-established pilates studio with locations around Boston, to do a 90-day workout challenge. She, along with Bodyscapes Fitness, recently moved into The Launch at Hingham Shipyard, and wanted to do some advertising with a local blogger. Together we came up with 90 day challenge.